What's right and what's wrong is socially constructed. I try to actively participate in redefining this but social pressures seem to draw me from doing what is not advised. I want to set good examples in "bad" ways, but still meet some of the same ends, just through less conventional means. The repercussions from the condescending cookie-cutters can be painful, but maybe all i'm looking for is a bittersweet ending anyways...